Hi there!! I hope my profile finds you cool and well......I have decided to include this profile to offer a little more insight into my personality for you to peruse before meeting or booking me and I have included this profile to offer a fun aspect of my personality! I guess that one has to sell/describe oneself so here goes without hopefully seeming too over the top....It is all true!! By way of introduction-I am English,and I am considered very youthful,vibrant,effervescent,sexy in combination with being handsome in a rugged masculine way with dark hair,blue/green eyes,slim athletic physique,5 11" tall. I am a creative soul,highly intelligent,articulate,bohemian,happy-go-lucky,artistic,a discerning conversationalist,passionate,GENUINE,thoughtful,caring generous,giving,motivated,positive,very aware of who I am and where I am going,ambitious,perceptive,free-thinking and MODEST too!!! How am I doing so far??? I have a "yin and yang" aspect to my personality and whilst one aspect of me enjoys a romantic moonlight walk by the river or on the beach- The other side is slightly crazy,zany,spontaneous and out there with a dichotomy and duality within myself.... I currently work as a full-time model and also as a massage therapist (handy for those cosy nights in-I will leave the rest to your imagination!!) I am very friendly and approachable,down-to-earth and NOT at all narcissistic. I have a keen interest in alternative therapies and also practise yoga but work hard and play hard when it comes to keeping fit at the gym. I guess I am a "social-chameleon" who will adapt to any given situation whether in the pub or at a gallery opening.I am very genuine and try to remain true to myself and others and I love to give as much as I like to receive-I will definately leave this to your imagination which must be working overtime by now. So why am I placing this advert/profile....Well,although I never seem to have a problem meeting girls-I just seem to have met the wrong/incompatable types recently so I thought I would give this a chance to see what happens..... So if you are now intrigued I shall look forward to hearing from you and please do tell me a little more about yourself...... LETS ROLL THE DICE AND SEE WHAT HAPPENS xx
"I love to laugh and love the company of men.Real men.Confident men.Men who know when I need to be silent and can respect that.Gentleman,yet not always.I love the rebel too,the almost impish,boyish and playful quality that surfaces in a strong,confident man.When that spills over into passion and desire the combination is exquisite." Josephine
Difference between men and women with emotional connection due to sex:
Ok right - now here is something a lot of people don't know, and definately should! It's helpful for girls and guys in understanding each other. So, the question is 'WHY ARE GIRLS SO EMOTIONAL ABOUT SEX AND GUYS AREN'T??!' There is an answer! It's important to know this, because, for example, it can be really hurtful for a woman when the man she just slept with doesn't want to cuddle afterwards... and it can be really annoying for a guy when a girl wants to cuddle after sex ~ so this is why: When a female and male have sex, a hormone is released in both of them called 'oxytocin' (commonly known as the "cuddle hormone"). This hormone deepens the feelings of attachment to each other and strengthens the bond between them. This is greaaat - except that testosterone (male hormone) counteracts/mostly gets rid of the oxytocin... this means that it is really only the female who experiences the oxytocin and, therefore, it is really only the female who experiences the feelings of attachment and bonding. So ... this is why, after sex, girls like to cuddle up to their man (they're feeling more emotional attached to the guy than before they had sex - in fact they're feeling VERY strongly attached to the guy). However ... guys do not naturally feel this urge/want to cuddle, because they have not experienced the "cuddle hormone" anywhere near as strongly as the girl,because of and due to their testosterone.Guys really just want to lie there and cool down or even sleep after sex - they are hot,tired,sweaty.... and (unless they like you already) they will be unlikely to be experiencing feelings of attachment/bonding towards you girls ( SORRY LADIES TO INFORM YOU OF THE PAINFUL TRUTH! ). So GUYS ~ pleeeaase understand that when girls want to cuddle after sex, it isn't them being annoying or clingy or weird - it is because of the release of oxytocin. Tell them you need a minute or two to cool off, and then you'd love to cuddle them - and do that.. it is important for a girl to have the cuddling, it really is, even for 5 minutes. And LADIES ~ try to understand that guys don't experience the attachement feeling, and that, after sex, they are feeling very hot and so tired, and that they'll want at least a few minutes just to cool off without you cuddling/kissing/etc them. (I know - it's really sad they don't want to cuddle - but they just don't experience the oxytocin like we do!). GUYS AND GIRLS ~ you need to know this, so both of you can understand each other better, and it's definately important to know that!! Please try to do both the cooling down for the guy and the cuddling for the girl ... then neither of you should feel upset/frustrated and there shouldn't be an annoying/difficult/tiresome discussion afterwards!! X
"The purpose of playing at the first and now,was and is to hold,as twere,the mirror up to nature" Shakespeare "The Master never repeats or imitates others-The artist is always unique.I consider myself to be both a master and artist"
"Time is an invention and abstract concept.Now is a reality.So much creativity is happening for the simple reason that we have withdrawn ourselves from past and future.Our whole energy remains blocked either in the past or in the future.When you withdraw all your energy from the past and future a tremendous explosion happens.That explosion is creativity!!"
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